Discipline makes Daring possible.

The sweet spot

The sweet spot

One of the things that puts Bosses off writing down how their business should work, is that there is just so much to know.

When it’s all whirling around in your head along with all the ideas for new ways to delight your clients, and all the everyday housekeeping for your business, it’s almost impossible to work out where to start, or how much to write down.

Where to start is easy.  I like to begin with how you open for business.  It’s a good warm-up exercise, usually fairly straightforward, and immediately useful.  It also gets you starting to think about how responsibilities are shared.

As you write your Customer Experience Score, it pays to remember that you’re writing for competent human beings, professionals, who know what they are doing.

You don’t have to spell out the bits they are experts at – whether that’s making a testimonial video, coming up with ideas for a marketing campaign, preparing a set of accounts, or handling a quartet of dogs in the park.    These bits can be jazz: “film cool stuff“, “produce 3 ideas – one for the client, one for us, and one off the wall“; perhaps with a few pointers, “practise recall, play catch, give them a good run“.

In general what a Customer Experience Score is doing, is documenting all the bits around those core activities that have to happen in order everything to run smoothly, and in line with your Promise.

These are the bits that you do unthinkingly, because you’ve internalised them, but which others have to learn to do, and need to refer to when an activity is infrequent.  These are also the bits we can bring even more into line with your Promise, to make the experience unique and even more compelling.

These bits can be a bit more spelt out, but as no more than bullet points.  As prompts, not instructions.

By the time you’re done, often all people need is a look at the high-level diagram to remind themselves, they already know the steps by heart.

So, how much to write down depends on you, your team, and your Promise of Value:

What level of detail will give you confidence that clients will always get the customer experience they deserve?

What level of detail will give your team the confidence to ad lib, personalise and embellish in order to make that customer experience even better?

The sweet spot lies at the intersection of these questions.

And the best way to find it is to start writing.

 

Discipline makes Daring possible

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The Disappearing Bosses Club

The Disappearing Bosses Club

It’s taken a little while, but The Disappearing Bosses Club is finally here.

If you’re an overloaded, purpose-driven small business employer, who wants to make an even bigger impact within the next couple of years, this might be the club for you.

If you’re planning to sell your business in the next couple of years, and want to maximise the value you get, and minimise the strings attached, this might be the club for you.

If you know you want your employees to own your business, and you want to help them learn to run it without you before you go, this might be the club for you.

The Disappearing Bosses Club opens its doors in September, to 7 participants.

Check it out, and register your interest here: https://www.thedisappearingboss.com/the-disappearing-bosses-club

I’m Kirsten Gibbs, Boss Disappearer, and I can help you write your Customer Experience Score , to make your business easier to run, easier to grow, easier to sell if that’s what you want, and easier to build into a legacy you’ll be proud of.

Discipline makes Daring possible

A special thank you to the lovely Phoebe Weston for making me make this.

 

Between 3 and 300

Between 3 and 300

It’s a classic story of how many small businesses grow, and then shrink again.

As the founder, you do everything.   You do the sales and marketing to get clients, you enrol them, and you deliver the service to them once they’re on board.   Gradually you refine your hand-crafted offer into a customer experience that is uniquely yours.   That most of your clients really love.  That you become known for, even though you aren’t the only person or business offering this service.

 

So you decide to scale up.   You add other people – employees, or just as often, specialist freelancers – to help you with delivery.  So you can service more clients.

Handing over means systemising the parts of the process other people can do for you, but you retain control of the parts that matter – where the process interfaces with clients.   The heart of the customer experience.  After all, you are the face of the business.  People buy people, and that means you.

At first this is great.   You can handle more clients than before, make more profit than before.  So you take on more collaborators.

But all too soon, it becomes too much.  Suddenly you are working harder than anyone else.  You feel obliged to keep your collaborators fully occupied, but that means overloading the backbone – you.

You can’t take holidays, you can barely take weekends.  And when you do snatch a break, either it gets interrupted by collaborators or clients, or you come back to extra work.   Because nobody else can fulfill your role.

 

So back down you shrink.  Not quite to the one-man band you started as, but to essentially a one-man band with specialist accompaniments, dealing with a limited number of lucky clients each year.

In principle, there is nothing wrong with this.  Of course not.  It’s your life, your business, you decide how you want to live it.

 

But if you dream of making a bigger impact, you might like to know there is another way.   That doesn’t involve ‘going corporate’.  That doesn’t mean building a machine, losing the personal feel of your business completely.

The choice isn’t between 3 people and 300.  Between being a freelancer or being a tycoon.  Between being human and being corporate.

It’s possible to systemise your personality, your values, your unique customer experience into a small business that can scale without losing its humanity.  And without killing you in the process.

You just have to go about it in a different way.

By building your business as a system for making and keeping promises to the people you serve.  A system run by and for humans, not machines.  A system that enables everyone to be a Boss, so that any one of you can take a break when you need to.

Luckily for you, I’ve worked out how to do this over a year-long programme.  My clients have reaped the rewards.

It’s called The Disappearing Boss.

And from September you’ll be able to do it yourself, as part of The Disappearing Bosses Club.

Discipline makes Daring possible.

Ask me how.

 

 

Letting go of the tiger

Letting go of the tiger

During that tiger-riding phase of growing your business, when you’re growing fast, when new opportunities are coming at you thick and fast, and it feels right to take as many of them as you can; it can feel like everything is out of control.  It can feel like nothing is working as it should, so you have to be everywhere, supervising everything, checking everything, or the tiger will run away with you.

You might think that this would be the worst time to start writing down your Customer Experience Score.

You’d be wrong.

Because, by giving yourself space to get your music out of your head, you also give yourself space to think about how ‘doing things right’ can be made easier to achieve.  Sometimes ridiculously so, with a ridiculously simple change, such as creating a Prop for others to use that literally helps them see through your eyes.

Because, as you write down what till now has only been playing inside your head, you see how the part you wrote for the violins is very close to what the violas will need, and the oboes, and with a few more tweaks, the clarinets.  Suddenly, the job of getting it all down is much smaller than you thought.

And because, as you write the first few parts, and see how easy it is to get your Orchestra to play them beautifully, even when you’re not in the room, you realise that the next part you write is likely to work just as well, and the one after that, and the one after that.   Suddenly, the job of getting it all down is far less urgent than you thought.

And so you realise that you can loosen your hold.  That the tiger isn’t going to run away with you.  That you can spend time building her a generous and beuatiful reserve in which she can flourish.

You’ll never be done of course, but now you know how easy it is, you can enlist your team to help you.

And once they know as much as you do about how your business should work to make and keep its promises to customers, you can step back and enjoy watching your tiger become a streak.

 

Discipline makes Daring possible.

It also makes it easier.

Ask me how.

 

 

 

Who do you know that’s suffering from ‘Founder’s Syndrome’?

Who do you know that’s suffering from ‘Founder’s Syndrome’?

‘Founder’s syndrome’ – some extracts from the Wikipedia definition:

“The organization is strongly identified with the founder”.

“Obsessive leadership style”.

“Founders tend to make all decisions without a formal process or feedback from others.”

“little meaningful strategic development, limited professional development. little organizational infrastructure in place”

“Higher levels of micromanagement”

“no succession plan.”

“recruits find that they are not able to contribute in an effective and professional way.””

“The founder becomes increasingly paranoid as delegation is required, or business management needs are greater than their training or experience.”

 

To me, much of this looks like the classic, painful transition from one-person-band, to few-person-band, to full-blown company.

Which in the rather smug and contemptuous view of the writers of this Wikipedia entry, is all too often the transition from a small, personal, impact-driven, human-scaled business to a large, impersonal, money-focused capitalist corporation.

The founder wants to keep things personal and true to their original vision.

New owners or new management want to make things efficient, corporate money-oriented, and therefore impersonal.

In other words, as far as the founder is concerned, they want to make it ‘someone else’s business’. (https://gibbsandpartners.com/blog/2021/09/design-your-business-or-it-will-be-designed-for-you/)

Of course the founder resists.

So would I.

 

There is a preventive for ‘Founder’s syndrome’:

 

Become a Disappearing Boss.

 

Embed the founding vision and personality into the operating processes of your business before you try to scale, with a Customer Experience Score .

You’ll be able to scale without managers, without investors – other than the people you serve. Without going corporate.

The best of both worlds: personal, true to the original vision and magnifying your impact.

Even better, once its built into the way your business works, your Score takes on a life of it’s own, nurtured and improved by everyone in the business.

It becomes harder for anyone to interfere – even you.

Discipline makes Daring possible.

 

The Disappearing Boss is currently available as a ‘done for you’ option and a 1:1 coaching programme.

From next month it will also be available as a DIY option as The Disappearing Bosses Club.

I’m looking for 7 founders of unique and amazing impact-focused businesses, employing between 3 and 9 people, who want to magnify their impact without losing what makes them unique, to help me test and refine my design for this part of my business.

It will be a 3 month committment, at a pioneer price, that will add value to your business, or your money back.

DM me if you want to know more.

I never thought I’d say this…

I never thought I’d say this…

I enjoyed hoovering this morning.”

Perhaps it’s because I’ve had months of things being a bit upside-down, a bit chaotic, not running as smoothly as I’d like.

Of having too much to do.

But then I sorted things out.

And today it was good to get back to low-level but regular interventions.

 

Perhaps you don’t think you’d ever say this:

“I’m enjoying being away from my business most days.”

If you’ve had years of things being a bit upside-down, a bit chaotic, not running as smoothly as you’d like.

Of being too much in demand by your team.

Of bearing all the responsibility for what your customers experience.

 

Writing down your Customer Experience Score will get everything sorted out.

So you can get your team running your business alongside you, and move on to low-level but regular interventions.

And enjoy them too.

 

Discipline makes Daring possible

Ask me how.

Where this blog title came from

Where this blog title came from

Christmas, 2014.  I was listening to The Reith Lectures on Radio 4.

As usual, I hadn’t taken much notice of who was behind what I was listening to (I didn’t find out who played my favourite ever dance record until 30 years later).  Then the speaker said something that galvanised me.

“Discipline makes Daring possible”.

After that I had to follow up on it.

The lecture was the second of a series on “The Future of Medicine”.  The speaker was Dr Atul Gawande and the episode title was “The Century of the System”.

It “tells the story of how a little-known hospital in Austria managed to develop a complex yet highly effective system for dealing with victims of drowning.” – specifically in freezing water.  A system that could be triggered by the receptionist.

The story came from Gawande’s book, “The Checklist Manifesto“.   I tracked down a copy, bought it and devoured it in one sitting.

I thoroughly recommend it.   Not just because it shows how something as simple as a checklist can save millions of lives, also because it shows how resistant ‘professionals’ are to any kind of systemisation.

Which fed nicely into my fascination with finding that fine balance between systems and humans that makes for consistently rich and evolving customer experiences, as well as consistently rich and evolving employee experiences.

If discipline is what makes daring possible, how little of it can you get away with?

How much daring can it enable?

I don’t know.

But I’m still enjoying finding out.

Express yourself

Express yourself

Starting a business is largely about you.  Expressing your passions, your purpose, your vision.

But it can’t be only about you.

The secret is to express yourself in a way that resonates with other people.   That allows them to express something about themselves too.

Some will want to be customers, others will want to help you do more of it, still others will want to bask in the glow of your success.

Your business starts with you.  But it mustn’t end there.

Building it as a system for making and keeping promises is an excellent way to remind yourself of this.

 

Discipline makes daring Possible

They are not you

They are not you

There’s a very good reason why, as a Boss, you might balk at writing down your Customer Experience Score.

It’s not your style.

As the founder of your own small business, there’s a good chance you are a proactive, internally motivated, independent, options-oriented person.  You probably hate the idea of following someone else’s instructions.   After all, that may be a good part of why you set up on your own in the first place.  To follow your own rules, do what you think is right, try out different ways of doing things.

Your style is brilliant for setting up a new venture, you’re happy to experiment until you get your offer and your customer experience right.  And as long as its just you delivering it, things are fine.

The problems start to come as you take on new people, not to do the things you probably shouldn’t do, like bookkeeping or HR, or health and safety, but to act as if they were you in looking after prospects and clients.

But they are not you.

They don’t know what you know, they don’t have the history of how you got here, they don’t have your muscle memory of how to do things, and they almost certainly don’t work in your style.

Some of them will be more reactive than proactive.  Some will be more procedures-oriented – they will be more comfortable following a process.  Some will be more externally motivated – they will care more about what others think of them, about what you think of them.

None of this means they can’t do the job of looking after customers as well as you.  Some will do it even better than you.   It just means they won’t do it in exactly the same way as you, and they can’t learn how to in the same way you did – by working through it.

So, since like most of us, you are probably also a ‘my rules for me, my rules for you’ kind of person – what’s good for you is good for them – you assume that your people will just get in on with it.   That having seen you do it, they’ll be able to do it themselves – exactly as you do.   That they won’t want ‘to follow other people’s instructions’.  And at the same time you worry that they will want to put their own spin on it, to do it their own way, not yours.

And that your clients wouldn’t like it if they did.

But that’s just not true.

This is not a judgement on you.  This is just how it is.  People are different, in interesting ways that can enhance or diminish the experience for your clients.

You want to minimise the possibility of diminishing, but with ‘my way or the highway’ you minimise the possibility of enhancing too.

A much more satisfying approach is to get your vision of your ideal customer experience out of your head, and onto ‘paper’, not as ‘instructions’, but as a guide, like music, what I call a ‘Customer Experience Score’.

A Score that doesn’t dot all the i’s and cross all the t’s, or tell people what to do in excruciating detail.   That doesn’t dictate their every move, but tells them clearly and simply, visually, what has to happen, when, for the customer, leaving the details of execution to them.

The good news is that as an options person, you quite like setting up processes, you just don’t like following them.   So this job is perfect for you.

And when you’re done, you can share the work of caring for customers with more of your team, safe in the knowledge that they won’t go wrong, but they can be more right.

You’ll all be happier for it.

And so will your customers.

Discipline makes Daring possible.

Ask me how.

De-cluttering

De-cluttering

“Do you really need 10 cake slices?  Let’s get them down to one or two, shall we?”

One of the first things a professional de-clutterer will do is get rid of ‘duplicates’.

This is a strictly utilitarian view, that says one cake-slice is much like another, and ignores all the possible reasons why you might end up with 10 of them.

You might have received one as a gift, or inherited one from a parent or friend. You might have had to rush out and buy new because you couldn’t put your hand on one just when you needed it. You might have just liked the look of it.

Or you might simply be satisfying that very human urge for repetition with variation that encourages us to build collections.

All that makes choosing ‘the one’ that’s going to stay, emotional and just a bit stressful, especially if you’re made to feel judged by your inability to maintain a minimal lifestyle.

Which might be one reason I dislike de-cluttering TV programmes so much.

As you grow your small business, working out what your clients really want, and finding new ways to delight them, you acquire business processes like I acquire cake-slices.

You inherit them from your previous workplace, or maybe even the previous owner. A new employee gifts you a shiny new one.  You cobble a new one together in a rush, because you can’t quite put your hand on the one you did earlier when you need it.

Or, as happens when we’re in the thick of it, it’s simply easier to focus on the differences between cases rather than the similarities.

Luckily, business processes aren’t like cake slices. We don’t have to choose.

We can combine the best features of all of them to create one beautiful and super-useful process, with all the emotion built in, and still with room enough to deal with a new kind of cake.

That means that when I work with clients, I can start by assuming we’re going to keep everything, and work on capturing and streamlining the most salient version – the one that happens most, or is the most difficult to hand over, or the most complicated.

Usually, by the time we’ve worked through that, the owner has realised that they don’t need all the others. This new process covers all the options.

We check to make sure of course. And if, on further inspection, it turns out we do need another version, we put that in place, reusing as much of the newly designed process as we can.

No stress. No agonising over what to keep and what to throw away. No being made to feel like you are in the wrong.

Just the relief of knowing that all that clutter is now out of your head, and out of the business too.  Making it a calmer, clearer place to work for everyone, with added room for innovation.

Discipline makes Daring possible.

I’m Kirsten Gibbs, Boss Disappearer, and I can help you write your Customer Experience Score , to make your business easier to run, easier to grow and easier to build into a legacy you’ll be proud of.

Ask me how.