What if it doesn’t work?
It’s hard to Disappear from the business you started – although not as hard as you might think. After all, for a long time, you aren’t ‘gone’, you’ve just blended yourself in. The disappearance is gradual, so everyone has time to get used to it. Including you.
It’s probably better to say it’s hard to get started on Disappearing.
Why?
Because it’s step into the unknown. And what if it doesn’t work? What if this is the wrong choice? What if there is something better out there?
To which in all honesty, my answers have to be: ‘It might not work for you. It might be the wrong choice for you. There might well be something better out there for you.’
But if you know you want to change your relationship with your business, there’s only one way to find out what the right solution for you is.
And that’s to take a step into the unknown.
My job is to make taking that step as easy and as comfortable as possible. To show you as quickly as possible that what we do together will give you what you need. To make sure that even if you decide to stop, you still feel you’ve gained something worthwhile.
I can tell you till I’m blue in the face that it has worked for most of the people who tried it. In some cases spectacularly. Nobody lost by it.
But me telling you, or even me showing you, isn’t going to be as convincing as you having a go for yourself.
For that reason I’m going to start a club.
It’s called The Disappearing Bosses’ Club.
It will start in September with a 3-month experiment to find out what you really need, and put that in place.
I’m looking for pioneers to help me do that.
Let me know if you’re interested.
Thank you as always for being there.
Discipline makes Daring possible.
One of the first things a professional de-clutterer will do is get rid of ‘duplicates’.
This is a strictly utilitarian view, that says one cake-slice is much like another, and ignores all the possible reasons why you might end up with 10 of them.
You might have received one as a gift, or inherited one from a parent or friend. You might have had to rush out and buy new because you couldn’t put your hand on one just when you needed it. You might have just liked the look of it.
Or you might simply be satisfying that very human urge for repetition with variation that encourages us to build collections.
All that makes choosing ‘the one’ that’s going to stay, emotional and just a bit stressful, especially if you’re made to feel judged by your inability to maintain a minimal lifestyle.
Which might be one reason I dislike de-cluttering TV programmes so much.
As you grow your small business, working out what your clients really want, and finding new ways to delight them, you acquire business processes like I acquire cake-slices.
You inherit them from your previous workplace, or maybe even the previous owner. A new employee gifts you a shiny new one. You cobble a new one together in a rush, because you can’t quite put your hand on the one you did earlier when you need it.
Or, as happens when we’re in the thick of it, it’s simply easier to focus on the differences between cases rather than the similarities.
Luckily, business processes aren’t like cake slices. We don’t have to choose.
We can combine the best features of all of them to create one beautiful and super-useful process, with all the emotion built in, and still with room enough to deal with a new kind of cake.
That means that when I work with clients, I can start by assuming we’re going to keep everything, and work on capturing and streamlining the most salient version – the one that happens most, or is the most difficult to hand over, or the most complicated.
Usually, by the time we’ve worked through that, the owner has realised that they don’t need all the others. This new process covers all the options.
We check to make sure of course. And if, on further inspection, it turns out we do need another version, we put that in place, reusing as much of the newly designed process as we can.
No stress. No agonising over what to keep and what to throw away. No being made to feel like you are in the wrong.
Just the relief of knowing that all that clutter is now out of your head, and out of the business too. Making it a calmer, clearer place to work for everyone, with added room for innovation.
Discipline makes Daring possible.
I’m Kirsten Gibbs, Boss Disappearer, and I can help you write your Customer Experience Score , to make your business easier to run, easier to grow and easier to build into a legacy you’ll be proud of.
Ask me how.